Protocol
These rules exist to make each encounter safe, respectful, and meaningful. They are simple gestures of consideration that help both of us be fully present when the session begins. They apply to all sessions I offer in Brussels and in the other cities I visit.
Before the Session
- Cleanliness is essential. Arrive freshly showered and prepared with the practices you intend to engage in during the session in mind.
- A shower is available at the dungeon before the session if you need it before and after the session.
- You may wear a light perfume, but I invite you not to hide your own scent. It is part of how I feel you and who you are and covering this with deodorant would make it unpleasant for me.
- Every session begins with a short discussion, and ends with a debrief, neither counted in the session time. It's a moment we take to connect before our session and where you can ask last minutes questions. It's also the last moment to share any medical or personal information relevant to the session.
During the Session
- Respect is the only rule that matters. You may call me Mistress, or not. You may kiss my hand or my feet if it feels right.
- If you wish to offer a gift, small attentions are appreciated: quality chocolates, cookies, a bottle of moelleux wine, or gin. More personal or thoughtful gifts are always welcome.
- If not discussed otherwise, I use the three-color system for consent: green good, yellow pause, red stop.
- Beginners and experienced players are both welcome and I build my sessions to suit the level and comfort of each participant. I also heard they are particulary comfortable for neurodivergent individuals, being one myself and knowing very personnaly how it can influence the experience.
Boundaries and Consent
- Sessions are fetish and BDSM focused. They are not vanilla sexual services, though intimacy and physical connection can exist when it makes sense.
- If you have practices or fantasies not listed, you may talk to me about them. I am open to discussion as long as safety and respect remain.
Offerings
The offering is presented at the beginning of the session, before taking your shower and the session itself.
After the Session
- We take a moment to breath, talk and ensure everything feels right.
- That closing exchange is as important as the play itself and helps protect what we have shared during the session as you leave my world behind.