Protocol
Protocole
These rules exist to make each encounter safe, respectful, and meaningful. They are simple gestures of consideration that help both of us be fully present when the session begins. They apply to all sessions I offer in Brussels and in the other cities I visit.
Before the Session
Avant la session
- Cleanliness is essential. Arrive freshly showered, with clean nails and breath.
- A shower is available at the dungeon before the session if you need it, a moment to wash away the day and prepare to enter my world.
- You may wear a light perfume if you wish, but I invite you not to hide your own scent. It is part of how I feel intimacy, the warmth of clean skin, the trace of who you are beneath everything else.
- Every session begins with a short discussion, and ends with a debrief, neither counted in the session time.
During the Session
Pendant la session
- Respect is the only rule that matters. You may call me Mistress, or not. You may kiss my hand or my feet if it feels right.
- If you wish to offer a gift, small attentions are appreciated: quality chocolates, cookies, a bottle of moelleux wine, or gin.
- If not discussed otherwise, I use the three-color system: green good, yellow pause, red stop.
- Beginners and experienced players are both welcome.
Boundaries and Consent
Limites et consentement
- Sessions are fetish and BDSM focused. They are not sexual services, though intimacy and physical connection can exist when it makes sense.
- If you have practices or fantasies not listed, you may talk to me about them. I am open to discussion as long as safety and respect remain.
Offerings
Offrandes
The offering is presented at the beginning of the session, a mark of respect and intention.
After the Session
Après la session
- We take a moment to talk, breathe, and ensure everything feels right.
- That closing exchange is as important as the play itself.
Common Questions
Questions fréquentes
Do you see beginners?
Recevez-vous des débutants ?
Yes. Curiosity matters more than experience.
Can I ask for something specific?
Puis-je demander quelque chose de spécifique ?
Yes, if it fits our world.
Are photos allowed?
Les photos sont-elles autorisées ?
No. Privacy is absolute.
Medical conditions?
Conditions médicales ?
Tell me before; I adapt to ensure safety.